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My distraction list, helps with unhelpful thoughts and behaviours

2019-03-11T16:37:34+00:00

One of my favourite methods to deal with negative emotions from sadness to anxiousness, anger to negative thoughts is a distraction, this can also be used to break a craving cycle for those trying to overcome habits or unhelpful behaviours My life is amazing in many ways, and I have lots to be thankful for yet I also find many times feeling down, sad, angry, jealous, and beating myself up. I won't go into detail as my friends read this blog and they've heard it many times before. ( You know who you are and thank you x) Occasionally I allow [...]

My distraction list, helps with unhelpful thoughts and behaviours 2019-03-11T16:37:34+00:00

Not your normal “run post”

2019-03-02T20:05:44+00:00

Not some “check out how far I ran post”. For those who know me, know that I am the opposite of a natural runner. I am a shire horse made for pulling large weights slowly, not for floating elegantly across the pavements. Am I proud of myself for going for a run: yes Am I pleased with my speed? Yes ish. Time isn't what I care about, I made it round without stopping. My time was very slow but I never walked and I never gave up and goodness knows I wanted to. Here are some of the thoughts that went [...]

Not your normal “run post” 2019-03-02T20:05:44+00:00

Erectile Dysfunction

2018-09-18T14:43:34+00:00

Impotence and Erectile Dysfunction There’s nothing to be embarrassed about here. There is no judgement. ED is a topic that most men suffer from in silence, it’s not usually the topic of the men’s conversations and because of this many men feel very isolated and lonely, often not seeking help, spending years missing out on a very natural part of human enjoyment. If you're reading this page then you are heading in the right direction. Sex, masturbation and in-between is a natural part of being human and to lose the ability to fufill these actions can have significant impact on [...]

Erectile Dysfunction 2018-09-18T14:43:34+00:00

I am happy and fat!

2018-09-18T13:51:05+00:00

“I’m happy being fat! “No truly I am look, I’m happy and cheerful, life and soul of the party, so what if I’m overweight, fat doesn’t equal miserable and I’m here to show people that’s it’s ok to be fat and happy. I’m beautiful and fat. Look how much energy I’ve got! I’m happy being fat and I wouldn’t want to be miserable and thin.” Yes I’m with you, I’m certainly not saying that fat and happy and energetic and beautiful isn’t possible but what if you could be healthier and happier and more energetic? [...]

I am happy and fat! 2018-09-18T13:51:05+00:00

7 Practical ways to help your child or teenager to cope with stress

2018-03-15T09:43:45+00:00

Make sleep a priority Teenagers need a minimum of 8 hours up to about 10 hrs a night, with most research favouring over 9 hours. This is critical to their ability to cope, learn and manage stress. Sleep helps with weight management, stress and anxiety, ability to cope, ability to learn, ability to concentrate. Don’t laugh as there are ways to get your kids to agree to this, but electronics in bedrooms has a negative impact on sleep cycles. There is no research that I can find anywhere that says ‘watching tv or playing Xbox or watching you tube videos’ [...]

7 Practical ways to help your child or teenager to cope with stress 2018-03-15T09:43:45+00:00

Life coaching

2018-02-01T20:29:41+00:00

Health is a relationship between you and your body Terri Guillemets Life Coaching Life is always moving forwards and life coaching gives you the ability to seize the day, gain the most from every moment and helps you to achieve your goals and desires. Unless you take time out of your day to reflect, consider and learn, you won’t be getting the most from your time and energy. How does it feel when you change your goals from “I want to……" to “I am ………..”. [...]

Life coaching 2018-02-01T20:29:41+00:00

Addictions

2018-02-01T19:51:41+00:00

Health is a relationship between you and your body Terri Guillemets Addictions Food, cigarettes, alcohol, gambling, Facebook, social media, sex, shopping, exercise, anything that you feel compelled to do, that controls you and your life, a compulsion and behaviour has negative effects on your life. You are here because you are suffering in some way from a physical or psychological addiction. Your behaviour is now having such a detrimental effect on your life that you want to change. Or perhaps you can see that if [...]

Addictions 2018-02-01T19:51:41+00:00

Career Coaching

2018-02-01T19:57:10+00:00

Health is a relationship between you and your body Terri Guillemets Career Coaching You’re here for what reason? You want to change career? Possibly you’re always overlooked for promotion? You want to change jobs, company? Perhaps you just want to feel happier in your work? Perhaps you don’t do yourself justice at interviews? You could just want to be better at what you do? More motivation, confidence, increase communication, improve negotiation skills, all these things can be tackled and improved. Whatever the reason, you know [...]

Career Coaching 2018-02-01T19:57:10+00:00

Fears and Phobias

2018-02-01T20:00:02+00:00

Health is a relationship between you and your body Terri Guillemets Fears and Phobias This is very similar to stress and anxiety, except it is stimuli-specific. This means that your subconscious has learned that reacting with fear, an adrenaline release, panic, fight or flight, to a certain situation, environment or stimuli enables it to survive. Therefore every time you encounter the stimuli, your brain and body react in order to protect you - it worked before and you stayed alive, so your brain has very [...]

Fears and Phobias 2018-02-01T20:00:02+00:00

Stress and anxiety

2018-02-02T11:28:08+00:00

Health is a relationship between you and your body Terri Guillemets Stress and anxiety Stress and anxiety are perfectly normal, healthy states to be in occasionally, especially when you are in real danger. The problem arises when you enter this state even when you are not in danger, but your body and brain perceive the danger as real and so put your into this highly unpleasant state that has nowhere to be released and can cause damage to your mental and physical health. Suffering with [...]

Stress and anxiety 2018-02-02T11:28:08+00:00